Input from people who are informed about the Art of Seduction?
Amanda asked:
I’m a young woman who got into a situation with a man who is a few years older. I got in over my head. Can anybody give me any sort of Art of Seduction style tips/advice that women can use on men? I really want to get my power back in this situation. Long story short, classic case of him being more into me until we had sex. Him seeming totally intimate and loving, also when we weren’t/couldn’t have sex, and now him saying he’s not interested in a relationship with anybody because of “timing”. I am wondering what I can do to turn that around so that, even if I decide I don’t REALLY want him, I don’t come out of this powerless and used. I really don’t want comments from people who are out to judge, I just want assistance and advice with this. Also, I’m a scorpio/tiger and I want to work those qualities in me that have lain dormant because of my typically caring nature.
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July 1st, 2008 at 3:17 pm
That is a very interesting story. Sounds to me like many of you women are the same in needing to have this control and act like you are not that into us so us men go out of our way to catch your eye or get you to open up. This is intesting because a gal that I had met a few months ago did pretty much the same thing to me. I was not crazy about her or do any of the stupid things us guys do to push you away, I just gave her space and respected her cause I “thought” she might be a good chic to have as a girlfriend. Once she started playing that card I lost my respect for her and didn’t think much else of her other then another notch on my belt. Like you she jumped into bed with me, then my kindness disapeared, and the cards are turned. So my thought is you messed it up by trying to be that way, next time maybe put your heart on the line and try not to be this seducer and give one of us a chance. Doubt your going to be able to change his mind.